There's no denying that butts are all the rage: From toning your glutes to admiring Kim Kardashian's booty , butt stuff is a hot topic. And the final frontier of this booty-mania? There's no doubt that anal sex still comes with a bit of albeit sexy taboo. Perhaps that's because stepping into the anal arena for the first time can be intimidating, to say the least.
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Anal sex is the act of one partner inserting an object such as a penis, finger, or toy into the anus of the other partner. Most partners engaged in anal sex experience an orgasm. With males who are penetrated anally, the orgasm is usually obtained by the stimulation of the prostate gland as the object used for penetration rubs against the prostate through the anal wall. Adequate lubrication is recommended when engaged in anal sex since the rectal mucous membrane does not itself provide sufficient lubrication for sexual penetration.
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If it feels good, anything goes! Cisgender men and people assigned male at birth have a prostate , so in these cases a butt orgasm results from stimulating the prostate. You can stimulate the P-spot through the perineum, which is the runway of skin between the balls and the anus. This is how anal orgasms work for cisgender women and people assigned female at birth.